Gifted & IQ

How to Talk to Your Child About Their Test Results

Whether the result is high, average or lower than you hoped, how you talk about it matters more than the number itself.

Start with the experience

Ask first: "How did you find the puzzles? Which ones were fun? Which were tricky?" This keeps the focus on thinking, not on the score.

Keep numbers in perspective

  • Many parents choose not to share the exact number with younger children at all.
  • If you do, explain it simply: "It shows how you solved these puzzles today, compared with other kids your age."
  • Remind them that results change as they grow and practise.

Avoid labels

"You're a genius" can create pressure to always look clever. "You're not a maths person" can stop a child from trying. Neither helps. Talk about what they did, not who they are.

Celebrate effort and strategies

  • "You took your time on the hard ones."
  • "You looked for the pattern in the shapes. That's how good puzzlers think."

Use it as a starting point

Pick an area to enjoy together: more pattern games, a new board game, more reading. Make it about fun and growth, not fixing a weakness.

Siblings

Never compare results between children. Every child grows at their own pace and in their own way.

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This article is for general information and is not medical, psychological or educational advice.